





Pain is subjective. Yes you will feel a pinch just like any other piercing. Tongue piercings are commonly rated at 4/10.
Initial jewelry is intentionally longer to safely accommodate swelling. Once swelling decreases, the jewelry should be downsized by a professional piercer.
A straight barbell is standard for a tongue piercing.
That is a real possibility if you play with the jewelry, and or don't downsize to appropriate jewelry sizes.
Soft foods are recommended during the first few days. Avoid spicy foods, alcohol, smoking, and very hot foods while healing.